Question for the girls here

tormented.. hmm whoever said anything about people being tormented

i just think EVERYBODY needs to drop the whole labeling thing.. and get back on topic.. or in this case just not bash everybody

xXMXGirlXx125 wrote:

i just think EVERYBODY needs to drop the whole labeling thing.. and get back on topic.. or in this case just not bash everybody

I agree. I think that people who bash are just just scared of what they don't know.

agree

I understand what you're saying Brian but it is "normal" people who brand them Gothic at the end of the day. People make a big deal out of the choice of fashion they choose because it doesn't fit in with the norm', normal people don't abuse people who dress "skater" or similar because it's more acceptable to them as it's closer to their trend compared to Gothic. Personally, I don't like that particular choice of fashion, but it's only the clothes I don't like, not the people.

Normal people are only normal because they follow the most popular trend's in my opinion, I would be considered normal because I dress in a way that is the same as what most people wear, although I don't follow any trend in particular. But no matter what happen's people will always be put in jars, it's human nature bud. Just accept people for who they are, not what they wear.

P.S. That isn't a personal lecture to you Brian.

yeah i totally agree, I guess the same can be said for me, I wear clothing that people dont understand or dont know (for instance my moto814 shirt) hehe. Its just a way for them to be unique i guess.

Isn't that wonderful? I think we all just agreed on one thing. lol. Put that down in the books! This will probably never happen again!!! lol
Just kidding. It is cool though that we can all agree on something. Do you think we all agree because we all have been "picked" on? Is it something we all understand? Something to think about. I know alot of people who would not understand any of this, but of course, look who they are. They are the "normal" people who don't get picked on for what they wear. I mean, how can you get picked on for wearing Express, or Saks, right? Hahaha.
Hmmm... how did this post turn into this? Strange.

Personally I've never been picked on or bullied, nor have I dished it out. I just have a heart of gold to be honest, I always pitty people who are less off compared to me or people who are being bullied or have problem's, even though I have problem's of my own. I can't even watch the commercial's about third world countries pleading for help and donation's, one look at those poor kid's and I fill up, it's just the way I am. I always try my best to make people fit in with the people I hang out with regardless of style or appearance. People shouldn't discriminate against them factors!

well, you are a great person for that. There are not too many people who can actually say that they don't pick on people. I've done it, and I'm sure most everyone else has also. But there is a difference between bullying people who dress differently, and people who can't afford to dress at all. i mean, I've made fun of someone who was wearing something hideous, (in my opinion), but I have never made fun of a person who could not help how they dress because of some unfortunate reason. But if I do make fun of someone for what they are wearing, it's because...well there is no good reason. There never is.
Did that come out right? I'm not sure exactly what I am trying to say. I hope that someone doesn't take that the wrong way. It wasn't mean to be offensive in anyway, if it is.
I think my point was, hell, I don't know what my point was. Maybe that there is a differnce between between who can choose to buy clothes that are different than people who can't buy new clothes or anything else for that matter.
I don't know. Im done on this subject. It is gonna aggrevate me, and I don't want to go there any further.

sure i probably have said something to somebody to make them feel bad about themselves.. but that would have been a while ago. I try to be nice as possible as i can to people. People that call people stuid, weird or freaks and just call people names in general have something wrong with them. and i know a lot of you members on here HAVE put people down and made them feel like sh*t.. it sure has happend to me

I must be one of the most hated people in this forum.....
But I say like my man Jack.....
"You want the truth?....YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!!"
~A FewGoodMen~

UrbanRacer wrote:

Personally I've never been picked on or bullied, nor have I dished it out. I just have a heart of gold to be honest, I always pitty people who are less off compared to me or people who are being bullied or have problem's, even though I have problem's of my own. I can't even watch the commercial's about third world countries pleading for help and donation's, one look at those poor kid's and I fill up, it's just the way I am. I always try my best to make people fit in with the people I hang out with regardless of style or appearance. People shouldn't discriminate against them factors!

Personally
I've been picked on bullied, ridiculed, branded, tormented, extorted, discriminated against, and intimidated by demonic people my whole life.....

But I give it up to the Lord.....

I don't look for retribution, rewards, or anything else........

I just live my life......I'm turning 30 in June and am so happy to be out of my 20's........

>>.*Come to me all you who are weary and find life burdensome. I will refresh YOU*.<<{Matthew 11:28}

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